Aliso Viejo, CA July 21, 2008 The operative answer here is … carefully
and not too quickly!
“You only have once chance at making a good first
impression, and this opportunity is only a small window of time,” says Dave Kenny, PhD, a
psychologist at the University
of Connecticut and a
pioneer in the field of measuring the accuracy of first impressions. In his
landmark study, which appeared in the Journal of Personality and Social
Psychology he studied 250 college students. In the study each of the students was
assigned to a group of three others whom they had never had met and had not a
chance to speak with. Armed with nothing more than their first impression the
students were asked to measure each person in the group, including themselves,
based on five criteria. The results were then compared to the individuals self
assessments.
Amazingly
the students were able to accurately describe each others personality traits
based on nothing more than their gut instincts. The bottom line: People are
extremely good at doing a mental function now known as “thin slicing”, a term
coined by Malcolm Galdwell in his bestseller of the
same title, which means taking huge amounts of data, parsing it down to the key
elements, and making a conscious, or often unconscious decision based on this
narrow window of knowledge.
For decades
the ability to “thin slice” large amounts of data was attributed to a large
memory and therefore a higher intelligence level. But in a study by Edward Vogel, an assistant
professor of cognitive neuroscience at the University of Oregon
he found that the brain actually employs a “bouncer” – a neural mechanism that
controls what information gets into awareness. The bouncer’s job is to assess
each piece of information and decide if it gets processed or tossed.
To ensure we
get past the “bouncer” and have a shot at building a professional relationship
we need to understand the power of making a strong first impression. Many
studies including detailed research from the University of Toledo
suggest that in a sales setting or job interview we have 30 seconds (or less)
to make a lasting first impression. According to their study the keys to a
great first impression (and the first step to terrific presentation) are:
·
Visual
Appearance (55%) – Body language, posture, facial expression and eye contact
·
Voice
Quality (38%) – Tone, inflection and volume
·
Content
(7%) – What you have to say
For example,
to increase their odds of success, top producers in the field of selling luxury
homes make it a point to make a good first impression. They are relaxed; they
smile often and make frequent eye contact. Their tone of voice is low key, warm
and winning. They engage the prospect by asking questions and building
rapport. In addition they know exactly
what they are going to say based upon who they are working with.
They know
that luxury home buyers fit a unique demographic space in the residential real
estate market. As described by the agents who sell high end homes, luxury home
buyers are by and large middle aged, hard working couples, who have made their
own fortunes and are now in a position to live the luxury lifestyle they have
earned.
According
to a study conducted by the Luxury Home Council:
·
The
majority of luxury home buyers are aged 40-50 (48%) or 50-65 (44%) - the “Baby
Boomer” market.
·
Virtually
all affluent households consist of a married couple; 50% having children inside
or outside of the home.
·
The
typical luxury home buyer makes a large cash
investment in their home purchase - on average over 33 percent. This compares
to the median down payment of all buyers of just over 9 percent.
·
By
far, the vast majority of luxury home buyers active in the market today are
best described as “New Money” (89%).
·
The
average luxury home buyer will look for a home with 3,500-4,000 square feet,
4-5 bedrooms and 3-4 bathrooms. During their search, they will spend an average
of 11 weeks looking for a home and will view 12 homes before making a buying
decision.
Converting
a luxury home buyer “lead” into a client is the goal of every luxury home
specialist. One way to ensure success in making that first impression is to “know”
who your client is and shape your presentation strategy accordingly. Put yourself in the luxury home
buyer’s shoes for a minute and think about what you would like to have happen
when you walk through the doors of a real estate company. What would be your
expectations as a luxury home buyer? You might ask yourself these questions:
·
As
I walk through the doors what would I like to see, feel and hear?
·
How
would I like to be greeted?
·
How
long will I wait to see an agent?
·
When
I meet the agent, where will they take me?
·
What
questions will I be asked?
·
What
forms will I need to fill out?
The bottom
line is – nobody (except those like
Dorothy’s Scarecrow) gets engaged within the first 30 seconds, but those 30
seconds are critical elements in the process.
If you want to learn more about making that critical first impression
and getting engaged with your client, a great place to start is by taking the
Accredited Luxury Home Specialist (ALHS) course form the Luxury Home
Council. “Getting Engaged” is small part
of being successful in the luxury home market and you can find all the details about
this high quality online course by visiting www.becomealuxuryagent.com